How about a laugh?
My daughter, the psychologist, came by the other day while I was on this site. She asked what I was doing and I explained.
She asked. "Are you getting paid?"
I explained that I wasn't, then she said, "hmmm."
She came by a few days later and said that she had gone onto this site and looked at 100 images.
She has no interest in astronomy, has four children at home and edits books on the side for income. What I am saying is that she has no time to waste. If you get the feeling that someone has you under her magnifying glass, I think you're right. Don't be surprised to discover that we show up as a foot note in some obscure psychology book someday.